If you read my blog, you will come across the occasional reference to Team C. He just pops up randomly now and again as someone I had a long lunch with, generally. So, who is he and what is he to me? He is, in simple terms, a friend with benefits. Now, don't go thinking "l.b., you are such a ho!" I am a nice girl, really. However, I am a nice girl with a homelife that makes it supremely difficult to actually date in a traditional way. It would just be too hard and weird at this point. Still, I am a grown woman...I've done my time, you know? I am not quite ready to enter the convent or anything, so I have worked out this sort of compromise for myself. I get to have a couple hours of fun and comfort every once in a while without disrupting the household, the job, the anything.
I've known Team C for about two and a half years, and while there may be an element of us using each other, there is also understanding and trust between us.
So, I saw Team C today and anyone who wants a favor should ask now while I am in a good mood! Booya.
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Ahhh, thanks for answering my question. No further explanation or justification necessary. I have had more than my share of friends with benefits, I once even thought of creating a "Franken-girlfriend" because GirlA was fun to go out with, GirlB was the "take-her-anywhere girl", GirlC had talents and powers, GirlD liked to hang out in the kitchen and do the coffee/conversation thing. I just could not pick one that shared at least 3 of the qualifiers.
PS, not quite back up to speed over at the crap.
Evil-E: I love the Franken-girlfriend idea! And it goes so well with your Evil-E persona...
I could at least look at Crap today and post a comment about my favorite killers :-)
Right, may I have 500 bucks please? ;)
Actually thank you for the post! I do recall his name being peppered in different posts and I wondered who he was. Sounds like a fun relationship!
Thanks Tara. It actually is a fun relationship. I appreciate having a friendship that is very uncomplicated.
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