tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post4014046722166871349..comments2023-06-21T07:33:01.801-07:00Comments on What Fresh Hell is This?: How Am I? Frustrated, Thank You Very Much.laura b.http://www.blogger.com/profile/15086009761943858915noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-10240950423980872022008-09-24T10:04:00.000-07:002008-09-24T10:04:00.000-07:00MrManuel: hee hee! Well, true :-) I tend to use ...MrManuel: hee hee! Well, true :-) I tend to use "single" in my head when thinking of people who were never married, as opposed to divorced. There is definitely a different mindset.laura b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15086009761943858915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-91370876910742123382008-09-23T18:50:00.000-07:002008-09-23T18:50:00.000-07:00I laughed when you were describing him and you sai...I laughed when you were describing him and you said he was single. Well, I sure HOPE he is!!!MrManuelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12003292550689890179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-385120865586720302008-09-23T18:18:00.000-07:002008-09-23T18:18:00.000-07:00Churlita: Yeah, I guess it is partly just me havin...Churlita: Yeah, I guess it is partly just me having been brainwashed for years about how time away from the kids meant "neglect". I know thats not true. It can be a hard mindset to break. And I think you're right. If WTG won't step up, one of the older boys maybe could.<BR/><BR/>NoRegrets: She is, isn't she! She is always worth listening to.laura b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15086009761943858915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-72107116871604247412008-09-23T13:10:00.000-07:002008-09-23T13:10:00.000-07:00Churlita is right.Churlita is right.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-26679870097657348732008-09-23T12:38:00.000-07:002008-09-23T12:38:00.000-07:00AlienCG: Kids and guilt seem to go together someho...AlienCG: Kids and guilt seem to go together somehow :-) But WTG does need to grow up.<BR/><BR/>Mrs: WTG not wanting me to have a life outside of the house was one of our issues from day one and apparently he can't let it go. <BR/>He has definite control issues.laura b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15086009761943858915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-78329528346869992302008-09-23T12:36:00.000-07:002008-09-23T12:36:00.000-07:00WTG is an a-hole. Plus, you should give yourself a...WTG is an a-hole. Plus, you should give yourself at least one night. Your kids will be fine and if not, let your oldest son help out, the way you help him when he needs it. If WTG is too lame, maybe your oldest son will help. I really don't think a Friday or Saturday night is too much to ask. Your kids are old enough.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-25437508216765401572008-09-22T16:05:00.000-07:002008-09-22T16:05:00.000-07:00If HL wanted to be with his Dad then I guess he wo...If HL wanted to be with his Dad then I guess he would be still living there.. How is it that someone who claims to be a parent(WTG) refuses to offer help when it's their child that is asking for it.. You obviously need free time and a social life.. Is WTG jealous of you having a life outside of the kids.. The fact that you sacrifice so much already tells me that you do deserve to have a something outside of the family..WTG is really a jerk..Mrs. Hairy Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17953176969674262877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11494946.post-51355069920252542662008-09-22T16:02:00.000-07:002008-09-22T16:02:00.000-07:00I think you should meet up with this guy. You obv...I think you should meet up with this guy. You obviously think there's a possibility and I think you've earned it. Don't feel guilty, you deserve to have something that resembles a life. I think WTG really needs to grow up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com